It’s been almost 3 months since I last blogged and that’s because quite a lot has happened, I’ll keep it short and simple.
I decided to end my marriage of 10 years. It was my choosing and my doing. While many have been hurt by this decision, it is one that I am happy with. It was a very difficult decision but it was the right decision and I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my
shoulders heart. You can’t help what your heart and soul truly want and I learned the hard way that when you try to suppress your feelings and emotions for so long things take a turn for the worst. It’s not fair to anyone involved; you’re not only hurting the other person but you are hurting yourself.
My life is about to take embark on a huge change (this San Diego native is becoming an Angeleno, gasp!) and I am so excited for it, I can’t wait to get started. All my life I have worried about hurting others and what my thoughts and actions would do to them but not anymore. It’s time I did what I want to do, for me. I refuse to live my life anymore trying make everyone else happy and leaving my own happiness off to the side to be dealt with at a later time. At the moment, most see me as being selfish but I’m standing up for myself and my needs & wants and it’s incredibly liberating.
With these new changes will come new adventures and I’ll be sharing about it elsewhere and deleting this blog.
If you’d like to follow along with my new adventures (lifestyle & family), email me for the info to my new blog.
houseofgoldss @ gmail.com